Train up a child the way he should go and when he is older he will not depart from it
Proverbs 22:6
Gifts for Dad June 3, 2008
2008 Father’s Day Gift Guide
He may not be the coolest, funniest, or most smartly dressed guy, but he’s Dad and he deserves the best. So help the old man out.
Though he’s not up on what’s in this season, Pops knows that RFK Stadium is so last season. Reward that knowledge with retro cuff links made from seats at the old arena. Leave it to him to make orange cool again (Après Peau, 1430 K Street NW; 202-783-0022).
He’s a gadget hound, but he’s also a scatterbrain. Help him keep tabs on his trinkets with iFound. The tiny sticker or tag can be affixed to his cell, camera, laptop, luggage, even a dog. Once he misplaces something, whoever finds it can ring a toll-free number, which will call Dad’s three contact numbers. He can update them as often as he travels or moves (with a little reminding from you, of course).
He’s no Tiger Woods, but his achy back deserves some professional care. Get him to the Spa Minérale at Lansdowne for a golfers’ massage, which works the back and muscles most used in golf to improve flexibility and ease tension — so he’ll have no excuse for that double bogey (44050 Woodridge Parkway; 703-729-4036).
Instead of jet-setting, he steered the family station wagon across the country, quizzing you kids on state flowers, mottos, and birds. Commemorate the good old days with cookie cutters from Hill’s Kitchen. The new cooking supply shop has a cutter for every state and the District (713 D Street SE).
An astrophysicist Dad is not, but you can send his name into space as part of NASA’s Lunar Reconnaissance Orbiter. Visit the project website before June 27 to add his name to the microchip that will circle the moon and print a neat certificate of participation.
Though he’s no Washington bigwig, dad belongs on top of the world. Treat him to an overnight stay at the new Donovan House, where he can tower over the rest of Washington from a chaise at the rooftop pool (1155 14th Street NW; 800-383-6900).
He loves the call of the wild, so put together a team of rangers and visit Maryland’s six state parks in the first Park Quest Adventure. Register a team and receive your assignment of activities like scavenger hunts and fishing. Complete all tasks by July 20, and Dad could win a bike, boat, or camping trip.
HELP WITH A PROJECT – DID YOU GO TO COLLEGE ? DID YOU HAVE PARENTS? THIS IS FOR YOU! April 21, 2008
I am doing my senior thesis and need feedback.
I got three questions for you, and you post them here on the blog, or email them to me at pinkarma21@gmail.com if you want more privacy. I appreciate all the help.
I need your
1) gender and age
2) Where are you from? Where do you live?
3) Tell me about your worst day in college. What was your worst experience? What mistakes did you make that you feel were a result of your newly found independence? (You can answer all or one of these). Tell me your story.
4) What is something you wish your parents had taught you? It can be something that you learned on your own through experience or something that someone else taught you? Tell me your story.
5) What is the most important thing you learned in college (that has nothing to do with classes or studying, or professors). If you could leave behind one sentence, one piece of advice to future college students, what would it be?
Once again, thanks. And I look forward to hearing your stories.
Roots of Neurosis in Childhood according to Karen Horney April 16, 2008
a. People who become neurotic basically grow up in environments that are not safe. The dependence we have as infants creates a basic anxiety in all of us. If we are growing up in a family that does not provide a safe place fos us, we turn away from ourselves, develop a strategy for safety that makes us more vulnerable than ever.
b. Some things that cause neurosis:
1) Manipulative parents
2) Indifferent parents
3) Parents who offer no guidance
4) Parents who are harshly critical
5) Parents who force kids to take sides between them
6) Unkept promises – contributes to the feeling that you can’t count on people
7) 2 poles – either putting the child on a pedestal or not paying attention.
An environment which contains these elements translates to kids, “This isn’t safe.” They start to look for ways to be safe and this is the beginning of neurosis.
The Jet Set Zen 